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« on: January 09, 2012, 07:25:48 am »

Hey everyone. I have a question about stretching further. I can pretty wide toys at the moment, but it's depth I'm having trouble with. I think the problem is that since my transverse colon is bent so that it is horizontal, I have problems being able to stretch it or fit toys into it. I can take this toy in the large size: http://bad-dragon.com/products/chanceunflared, up until about halfway down where the middle ring of the shaft is. That's where it starts to get uncomfortable, and I believe that's where my transverse colon starts. Please tell me if I'm wrong! If I'm not wrong, please tell me how I can straighten out my transverse colon and be able to stretch it more! Toy ideas, technique ideas, anything and everything.
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« Reply #1 on: January 09, 2012, 09:49:25 am »

I have a similar problem with a 5 3/4 (I think) inches circumference only 10" of the 18" fits in my ass, and then it "hits" a point or wall where it's tingly and borderline painful. I've tried bending and arching differently but I just can't seem to get passed that "wall". I want to bury all of it in my ass, then another and another. I thought I was getting closer laying on my back and relaxing, but it didn't help enough to notice or measure. I think everyone's large intestines go in different ways, so no one answer is the correct answer. I've tried bending in ways that I've read in forums to no avail.
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« Reply #2 on: January 09, 2012, 05:23:27 pm »

I had the same problem..what i did was buy a double ended dildo 1.5 inch dia. lubed up real heavy and just kept working at it till i found my way though. then started working my way larger...i think the trick was a nice rounded head and flexible toy.....lube and enjoy the ride..
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« Reply #3 on: January 09, 2012, 06:16:09 pm »

Trust me, you are NOWHERE NEAR the transverse colon.

After 15 years of stretching, if I so could do it all over again I'd choose to go with depth and then width. The reason is because after all the pounding and bouncing up and down on my wide toys my Rectum has become deep and made the "S" turn at the sigmoid sharper from the pounding. This has made it very uncomfortable to take long toys any further than 15 inches.

If you're just starting out, get to 18 inches in depth and then move up in width in 0.25 inch increments if you're measuring diameter and 0.5 inch increments if you're measuring in circumference (diameter=across and circumference= around).

As for the wall... I'm there too pal.. I've also tried everything and no go. I keep trying but I'm beginning to accept the fact that I'm no longer built to go past 15 inches  Sad

Use plenty of lube, DON'T use desensitizing creams when exploring new ground, listen to your body and go slow. 

Good luck Smiley
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« Reply #4 on: January 09, 2012, 06:47:51 pm »

Just chiming in as another guy who finds he can't go very deep. I also feel a weird and not very fun tingling as I push in even the most flexible of toys. I sometimes wonder if it's just bent round and headed back out—though I don't think that's the case.

My recent success in getting my hand in has helped clarify that the sharp turn of the sigmoid is the problem. And with a bigger insertion (my fist), the turn is very sharp and very shallow: perhaps just six inches in.

As sexy as deep insertion sounds to me (at a conceptual level), it just doesn't feel good. By contrast, width satisfies me both conceptually and physically. So that's where I've been focusing lately.
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« Reply #5 on: January 09, 2012, 09:13:35 pm »

An addendum to my last entry:

The one exception for me is the slink I bought from SquarePegToys. It's made of super-soft silicone and has a great taper. It's really hard to control until the first six inches are in, but the same properties that make it hard to get started make it great for slipping in deep.

Hard to get started because the lube makes it slippery and the taper means that gripping it hard makes it slip right out of your hand.

Great for slipping in because (once it's started) the taper opens you up slowly. I find that slipping back and forth about four inches at a time, in and out, in and out, it slips deeper and deeper until I'm grinding on the bulb at the bottom. By then I'm feeling filled up way up inside. When the bulb slips in, the tip slips real deep and I almost always come immediately. Coming on that thing I feel like I'm bearing down on its whole length, about 21" in all. And that really is a nice feeling. But it's still a complicated one.
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« Reply #6 on: January 10, 2012, 06:11:58 am »

After 15 years of stretching, if I so could do it all over again I'd choose to go with depth and then width. The reason is because after all the pounding and bouncing up and down on my wide toys my Rectum has become deep and made the "S" turn at the sigmoid sharper from the pounding. This has made it very uncomfortable to take long toys any further than 15 inches.
I too have wondered the same thing Owen.  As  I've mentioned elsewhere, I hit the same wall, except with a very flexible 1.25 inch snake.  The snake only goes a couple inches deeper, but it does so by making a u turn to tuck into the inside of my hip, sort of.  (pointing down/out to the side)  I am working on getting it to make the turn back up, but it is a slow process.  In the past I have (occasionally) had a little more success with objects that had a little bit of a hook to the end, allowing me to swirl around the tip and find a path.  The next depth toy I make will have something like this. 
And I've got almost double your 15 years since I started with fingers etc., and over fifteen since I really started focusing on width.  I hit my bone limit for width with solid (round) objects, and pretty much so with anything slightly flexible, several years ago.  Fairly significant bruising against the bones, displacement of my tailbone (I am VERY double jointed), and tingling/pins& needles in my legs for a day.  NOT GOOD!  Putting the tailbone back was easy enough, but I was sure worried about the apparent nerve damage.
Now, I play with inflateables, as the insides can still stretch more, and the balloon flexes to come out the smaller opening, or I work on depth.  What I really need is someone with tiny hands and long arms to slide on in and give me an idea of where the openings are!   Grin

TrulyTruly: You recommend the Slink then?  I've looked at it in the past, and wondered.
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« Reply #7 on: January 11, 2012, 12:56:06 pm »

juranomo98,

What is the firmness of your Chance?  Softer will be able to more easily bend through the curves, but it also makes it more difficult to insert because it is so flexible.

Can you insert narrower toys deeper?  The head of Chance is quite large and blunt, so it looks like it could be quite a challenge.

The only other thing I would recommend is warming the chance in hot water before use.  (and as others have said, use lots of lube, take your time, etc.)

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« Reply #8 on: January 14, 2012, 05:15:25 am »

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« Reply #9 on: January 22, 2012, 01:16:40 am »

After 15 years of stretching, if I so could do it all over again I'd choose to go with depth and then width. The reason is because after all the pounding and bouncing up and down on my wide toys my Rectum has become deep and made the "S" turn at the sigmoid sharper from the pounding. This has made it very uncomfortable to take long toys any further than 15 inches.
I too have wondered the same thing Owen.  As  I've mentioned elsewhere, I hit the same wall, except with a very flexible 1.25 inch snake.  The snake only goes a couple inches deeper, but it does so by making a u turn to tuck into the inside of my hip, sort of.  (pointing down/out to the side)  I am working on getting it to make the turn back up, but it is a slow process.  In the past I have (occasionally) had a little more success with objects that had a little bit of a hook to the end, allowing me to swirl around the tip and find a path.  The next depth toy I make will have something like this. 
And I've got almost double your 15 years since I started with fingers etc., and over fifteen since I really started focusing on width.  I hit my bone limit for width with solid (round) objects, and pretty much so with anything slightly flexible, several years ago.  Fairly significant bruising against the bones, displacement of my tailbone (I am VERY double jointed), and tingling/pins& needles in my legs for a day.  NOT GOOD!  Putting the tailbone back was easy enough, but I was sure worried about the apparent nerve damage.
Now, I play with inflateables, as the insides can still stretch more, and the balloon flexes to come out the smaller opening, or I work on depth.  What I really need is someone with tiny hands and long arms to slide on in and give me an idea of where the openings are!   Grin

TrulyTruly: You recommend the Slink then?  I've looked at it in the past, and wondered.

A lot of this brand's toys look very interesting to me & many seem to make accommodations for the tailbone  This particular one might be of interest to you:)
(Very pricey but, seems to be the highest quality possible)
http://www.mr-s-leather.com/D449/slither.html?id=azGo5vNx
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« Reply #10 on: January 22, 2012, 07:21:55 pm »

HEY Terry2015, Bit harsh calling him a retard..BUT YOUR RIGHT.....So many people ask some of the most elementary questions. You would think they would do some research on the human anatomy. Before they started putting things in their bodies..From the rectum to the small intestine is NORMALLY 36"I asked a lot of questions when I had a colonoscopy done.. ..Juranomo here's a pic for you to study...There are INVOLUNTARY sphincters in the large intestines that you have to work through and the bends...


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« Reply #11 on: February 05, 2012, 03:59:15 am »

underused52: I've seen pictures like this many times, so don't say I'm asking elementary questions when these diagrams don't have measurements on how long your intestines are. I've tried looking up how long a rectum and descending colon are, but I've had no luck. That's why I came here.

I know about the human anatomy. I don't know lengths. I didn't know how long my descending colon was, so that's why I asked if it was hitting my transverse or not.

fredcocks: I wish I could get that. That looks really interesting, but $400 is way out of my price range for a toy.

db123ff: The firmness of my large Chance is a 7 or 8 because I was stupid when I got it and wasn't sure how firm each firmness was since I hadn't ordered from BD yet. I wish I got a medium firmness for it now. I don't know my medium Chance's firmness because I got it from the adoption list and they don't list firmness there. I can insert narrow toys deeper. I'm able to fit my entire 18 inch double-ended dildo with just a little difficulty at like the last two inches. It's about 1.5 inches wide. I'm hoping to get a double-dildo that's 2 inches wide and maybe a little longer than 18 inches. Any suggestions?
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« Reply #12 on: February 05, 2012, 11:00:58 am »

underused52: I've seen pictures like this many times, so don't say I'm asking elementary questions when these diagrams don't have measurements on how long your intestines are. I've tried looking up how long a rectum and descending colon are, but I've had no luck. That's why I came here.

I know about the human anatomy. I don't know lengths. I didn't know how long my descending colon was, so that's why I asked if it was hitting my transverse or not.

fredcocks: I wish I could get that. That looks really interesting, but $400 is way out of my price range for a toy.

db123ff: The firmness of my large Chance is a 7 or 8 because I was stupid when I got it and wasn't sure how firm each firmness was since I hadn't ordered from BD yet. I wish I got a medium firmness for it now. I don't know my medium Chance's firmness because I got it from the adoption list and they don't list firmness there. I can insert narrow toys deeper. I'm able to fit my entire 18 inch double-ended dildo with just a little difficulty at like the last two inches. It's about 1.5 inches wide. I'm hoping to get a double-dildo that's 2 inches wide and maybe a little longer than 18 inches. Any suggestions?

Yeah that toy is just a money grab. Those who fall for it usually have more money than brains.
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« Reply #13 on: February 06, 2012, 01:55:57 am »

db123ff: The firmness of my large Chance is a 7 or 8 because I was stupid when I got it and wasn't sure how firm each firmness was since I hadn't ordered from BD yet. I wish I got a medium firmness for it now. I don't know my medium Chance's firmness because I got it from the adoption list and they don't list firmness there. I can insert narrow toys deeper. I'm able to fit my entire 18 inch double-ended dildo with just a little difficulty at like the last two inches. It's about 1.5 inches wide. I'm hoping to get a double-dildo that's 2 inches wide and maybe a little longer than 18 inches. Any suggestions?

I am not aware of any 2 inch diameter double headers that are a "little" longer than 18 inches.  The Creative Moldings Richard is 2.1 inches (7.2 circumference) and 26 inches long.  But it is quite expensive. 

Another possibility, http://www.picturebrite.com/products/adultnovelties/doubleheaders/x-treme-double-header-dong-8x22-flesh.html The 8 is supposed to be the circumference, although http://www.bigsextoystore.com/cgi-bin/edatcat/BTSstore.cgi?user_action=detail&catalogno=SI-5035 has what appears to be the same listed at 7.75 inch circumference.

I have the Doc Johnson DJ0241-01 which is 18 inches and 7.25-7.5 circumference, but I can't take the whole length.  It is much more reasonable in cost than the creative moldings Richard.  The rounted heads are not as likely to get caught at curves as pointy items.  The cross section is oval shapped, so it bends easier in one direction.

I would suggest getting a second narrow 18 incher to insert beside the one you alread have.  The two side by side won't be twice the circumference, for example my two are 5 inches circumference each, but 7.5-8 inches circumference side by side.  Insert one, then after the first one has straightened the colon, the second will do the extra stretching.
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