how much looser was your wife/girlfriend after having kid? i know in the next year or 2 me and my wife will be starting a famly. and was wondering how much damage are the babys going to cause. not that i will mind much. lol

My wife has given birth twice and shes tighter than before the births. Its hard to believe after seeing her stretch and stretch but she is.

My wife got a lot looser after having a kid. I absolutely love it. Fucking her one day and had my dick and  3 fingers in her no problem. Could not have done that before. 

My wife is much looser, but it could actually be tighter, or more than likely, about the same.  There could even be other complications you do not want including vaginal prolapse , insertion pain, even nerve damage.  It depends on several factors including length of the actual delivery, if there is tearing and how bad, an episiotomy, pelvic floor tone.  I do not claim to be an expert but have done a bit of research on the subject due to our own experience. 

My wife and I played some stretching games before her giving birth and her biggest toy was about 7 inches girth, and we were nowhere near fisting.  After the first baby she was noticeably larger and even developed a gape when she spreads her legs, which I find incredibly sexy.  Her 7 inch toy was now easy to take, and I finally got my whole hand in one night while playing.  This sparked our interest and we continued the stretching/fisting games, had another kid, and she can now take a fist with relative ease, and even her warm-up toy is over 8 inches girth.  She is relatively small and not really comfortable with anything over 11 inches girth, but anything smaller than that just slips right in. 

Just hope that baby is healthy and there are no major complications with your wife. 

We actually like it loose. My wife can take a marrow with a paush. Recently I got hold of a veterinary speculum that is used on horses and other large animals. It opens far wider than she can take but looks so sexy with her all opened up.

I agree with you. If she manage to avoid incision or tearing, she will minimally enhance her stretching ability. Then is only up to you, if you allow her to loose this ability during the time or help her keep it. I have it confirmed from several forums, that there is a biggest change after third pregnancy and birth. But these irreversible changes, which can be exciting, have their dark side. Slack vagina walls allow pelvic organ descent to some level (more than 50 percent of mothers develop it in some degree). It is not bad until it  cause serious medical conditions like incontinence, constipation, irritation of protruding tissues, subsequent urinary track infections or pain. So bigger is not always better. From the positive way, next side effect is, that now lower positioned uterus keeps vagina walls stretched permanently, which leads to loss of their muscle tone.  So when woman is in the doggystyle position, when uterus fell down to her belly just hanging from the cervix, vagina fills itself with the air and you get surprisingly big empty cave.  It is all natural and you should assure your partner, that she mightn't be worry about it. From the other side, when she is sitting with the belly higher than the pussy, the weight of uterus pushes loose wrapped vagina walls a bit down, which opens her entrance more and shifts her labia out, so they are permanently opened and much more prominent. So there is much things you can look forward to and play with and enjoy, when you become a father 

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I current wife which ive had for 20 years ( 37 now ) was extremley tight before child birth, she is not slim but more on the chubby side, but here pussy was always very tight and we had to really work it for me to get in. I am not that big but she has so called fat pussy on the outside with alot of meat but very shallow on the inside. Her uterus hangs really low and she cannot take much depth. So after our first chile 2006 and then another in 2007 he pussy was definatly streched which gave it an awesom sensation. I started to use two fingers at most before chiild birth which was enough she thought, afterward i increased it gradually. She was very reluctant to fisting at first but today she cant be with out. She actually craves it to make sex be good for her, we have come to the conclusion that she swells up inside which enhances the sensation from my penis. But i agree on all the previos comments, but one important note is that me wife tore bad on the first child and had we streched her it probably wouldnt have happened.

My wife is  5ft 10 but quite small frame and I am 6ft 2heavy biult  and she had a difficult birth with our first kid but i did notice a noticeable looseness after the birth. The mid wife told us on the second pregnancy when she was 8 months pregnant that as the first was difficult that i should stretch her ( not actually saying fisting) She suggested my wife kneeling and rocking back onto my hand and I also stretching her lips with my fingers...she became really loose and gapped while sitting cross legged had a better birth but. we did not continue full fisting then as I have large hands but I felt we should have

ten years later my wife fell pregnant again and the same midwife visted us when my wife was 5 mths pregnant, i  asked ( just hoping a positive reply to start some times in the future) whether as stretching help last time when we should start...Her responce was very quick back..."go upstairs and start today, no harm,just take it easy with lots of jelly". My wife a little taken aback asked how often we needed to do it. This prompted the reply morning before you get up and before you go to sleep, when your hubby comers home from work....everyday if you want, a little pain now is worth a big cry latter  even watch a porno with hubby after the kids are in bed, forget your knickers if or use a dildo if it makes it easier but lots of jelly

i took this to mean....do it any time convenient and every day if you want to, my wife who is german took the mid wife to mean do it three times a day, everyday....and dont wear panties. ..I did not contradict her   By the birth four months later she was exceptionally loose and i could double hand. After the birth which was easy she was larger still and as we had got more into porno fisting films, shortly after the birth she took the celebratory champagne bottle base first,  we laughed as it just slipped in with a fart noise ( it was bought by my mother), she still loves it base first(12") while leaving it until her muscles relax back around the bottle neck then I slowly removed with a plop , she has even fallen asleep with the neck just stick out,

 ok she tightened a bit after three months but not much perhaps 14" to 12", she struggle with but likes the fullness of a 13" full Tesco Cola plastic bottle  but thanks to that misunderstanding the mid wife she gaps  wide just sitting and 50p size wide siting cross legged , we have never looked back and her panty draw is still empty  ,