some of you might be familiar with the meo stretching ring:
http://web-001.meo-team.com/catalog/product_info.php?products_id=8616i think the idea of it is incredibly hot... a ring holding your hole open, meant to be held in place for long periods of time... you can shit through it (not to mention putting things BACK the other way).
to anyone who has tried the XL version (i know of at least one person on here who has) they'll find that its damn near impossible. or so i thought
when i first tried it out, i was horribly disappointed... my hole was nowhere near the size it needed to be to take it. there were parts outside, away from my hole (think an inch and a half, or two) that had never been TOUCHED by a stretching object. I thought i would never get it in.
but i was persistent. for months i've been working towards it, i ended up buying the chichi larue dildo to work on depth and girth at the same time. this has been working nicely. every now and then i would laughably try my luck at the plug, each time facing failure. but like many new zones to stretching, the first couple attempts are just painful, more than anything... but eventually once i was met with the maximum resistance i could handle, i realized "wait... i can just relax a little bit more..." and felt myself opening up beyond my means. it was an amazing feeling. being pulled open in every direction, so far away from my actual asshole. indescribable.
once i learned this new "body feel" as im sure people into assplay are somewhat familiar with the term, i exploited it as often as i could, for a few more months. slowly but surely i got closer to my goal.
after a long hiatus of not plugging (but still chichi-ing), i finally took it upon myself to try again. i got it to bump past my hip bones! came instantly. the plug didn't settle though... as soon as i let up on the downward pressure (i squatted above it), it popped out again. the next day, i tried again
this time, once it bumped past my hips, i resisted cumming, got off the toy, relubed and tried again. got it past the hip bones (didnt cum!) kinda squirmed around on it and got it a little more settled. i still had to hold it in place.... its unbelieveably huge. indescribable.
all of this proves that with enough work, anything is possible!! so to those of you out there with a daunting toy, keep at it!