thats a good question Emopandas, i think any web advertising and linking etc has to be done by the owners of the site. as members the only thing we can do is by word of mouth, letting friends and acquaintance's we know about the site.   

more members would be great (we get 4 to 5 thousand new members per month) but the hard part is then getting these new members to join in and not just lurk, it's surprising how active the site can be if we get an extra 20 regular posters joining in.

Well i can create a signature picture we can post in other forums that is click able and lead them here, the thing is it would have to be an appropriate type of forum! don't want some kids from abstinenceforum.com raging at us :p
I think one of the best options is to lock down the website so the lurkers cannot see most* of the threads because even I did that b4 I decided to join I took a couple days and just poked around and got plenty if great of information and unless I didnt see something I could help with or did not like fisting so much and would like to back and fourth with some info I would not have joined... the thing is when you search for a fisting forum we are the first ones that come up but the actual member/post count is very low. If we had a just general info about fisting thread you know what is it how to do it and a couple tips with a suggestion to join to find any more info or ask questions they want it would get more people, that thread was the only one they could see it would give them more incentive to join.

Thanks for the offer but the “owners” have there own web guys and run many sites because this is free it always takes a lower priority in the grand scheme of things



OK..I’m going to have to watch what I say here as  I could get banned for flaming

BUT…DON’T EVER BAD MOUTH FISTS ON THIS FORUM !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

he has done more to keep this site going than the rest of us put together and with out him it would not have lasted this long

PS…that’s my polite response to some one whos only been on here for 6 hours

haha LOL

I have to say ACDC give yourself a pat on the back and OMG didn't that silence Emopandas bless him.  There is a little thing called etiquette I dont care who you are or where you are from but you do not go into someone elses house and instantly start telling them where to put their furniture or how to run their home.

I second your words ACDC and would encourage people like Emopandas to join this amazing forum and post freely but think before they do so...

Rather have a fist in my 
Haha your so rude acdc    love it     And you did have a very good point 

Unfortunately nowadays sites come and go pretty fast. People get bored and move onto the next "new" thing, facebook, fetlife, whatever they may be. I've personally been MIA from this site off n on for a few years due to lack of sex drive for fisting/huge toys. Lack of partners or the always elusive hunt for one can also be a big letdown so folks move on. So as to bringing folks back, hard to say. I would try and focus on the main core members of this site and just enjoy that.

Rubber hugs,

barbie

welll yes recently i logged in a bit more often, and seems it is too often.. given how little new posts appear... but overall, i am happy with this site. there's a group of core members that keep it going. it serves its purpose and i appreciate reasonably low amounts of spam.